some thought needed....
most things in life need a certain amount of thought...
but there are things that need more thought than others...
and most of these 'things' that need more thought usually involve strong emotions
(e.g. anger/hate, depression/sadness, confusion, love and the list just goes on)
somehow u realise most of the examples kinda are alike in the sense that the subject is often not happy and there starts the problem...
to much thinking is more effective than caffeine for keeping someone up all night @.@... it is one of the most irritating and frustrating experiences someone can go through and it can last for days...
it wont go away until the person finds some kind of answer to his/her unanswered questions in life....
i dont think theres any short cut cure to it... it takes time to overcome
(so dont go telling your friend dont think about whatever if he/she is thinking too much about it... never helps you are just reminding them of it and interrupting their thought process which means they have to start all over again even if they are already at 99%!!!)
mmm not at all helpful... but still shows some concern as a friend.. no doubt bout that... and it is inevitable that your thinking would be interrupted if you are with people or in a crowd.... best way to deal with this problem is to exile yourself from the world and the best time to do so is at night...
take me for example... i usually take walks at night(like 1am?) or sit in my nice comfy armchair and stair out into the night sky from my balcony or lie on my bed which has a spectacular view of the night sky... it has a somewhat calming effect just like taking a deep breath of fresh air when its raining.... or listening to Celine Dion's Ave Maria... or Hayley Westenra or Josh Groban songs...
someone once taught me if i was really really angry/frustrated/confused about something to write it on paper, rip it up into little tiny pieces, put it into a envelope and drop it into a mailbox... hasnt worked for me =\ ... i find if im gonna put it on paper why waste papers (and be a serial tree killer) if you could just send it to a friend, or the person the situation involves... but this requires a certain amount of bravery and what not...
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm still more thinking...
but there are things that need more thought than others...
and most of these 'things' that need more thought usually involve strong emotions
(e.g. anger/hate, depression/sadness, confusion, love and the list just goes on)
somehow u realise most of the examples kinda are alike in the sense that the subject is often not happy and there starts the problem...
to much thinking is more effective than caffeine for keeping someone up all night @.@... it is one of the most irritating and frustrating experiences someone can go through and it can last for days...
it wont go away until the person finds some kind of answer to his/her unanswered questions in life....
i dont think theres any short cut cure to it... it takes time to overcome
(so dont go telling your friend dont think about whatever if he/she is thinking too much about it... never helps you are just reminding them of it and interrupting their thought process which means they have to start all over again even if they are already at 99%!!!)
mmm not at all helpful... but still shows some concern as a friend.. no doubt bout that... and it is inevitable that your thinking would be interrupted if you are with people or in a crowd.... best way to deal with this problem is to exile yourself from the world and the best time to do so is at night...
take me for example... i usually take walks at night(like 1am?) or sit in my nice comfy armchair and stair out into the night sky from my balcony or lie on my bed which has a spectacular view of the night sky... it has a somewhat calming effect just like taking a deep breath of fresh air when its raining.... or listening to Celine Dion's Ave Maria... or Hayley Westenra or Josh Groban songs...
someone once taught me if i was really really angry/frustrated/confused about something to write it on paper, rip it up into little tiny pieces, put it into a envelope and drop it into a mailbox... hasnt worked for me =\ ... i find if im gonna put it on paper why waste papers (and be a serial tree killer) if you could just send it to a friend, or the person the situation involves... but this requires a certain amount of bravery and what not...
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm still more thinking...
posted by Finwe21Ancalimon_maosi at 1:28 PM
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